I dont know what to do about this girl. She is really obsess with me. I have no idea why. I told her i didn’t want any relationships right now. All I wanted to do was be single because I want no stress. Just want to enjoy my life. She said she wants the same thing. One night we was hanging out in my house. We were talking. I was laying on my bed and she was laying on the floor. I had my eyes closed at one point. She just kissed me. I admit that I liked it. But, I reminded her that I wanted to remain single. After this kiss, she became so in love with me. She has been asking me to be her boyfriend. I thought she wanted to be single. I guess she lied to me. She was probably hoping that I would change my mind after that kiss. Apparently, I did not and she is still trying. We get in pointless arguments about this. So, I told her to stop calling me and sending me messages on the internet. But, she continues to do so. Therefore, i changed my phone number and I blocked her online. Now, she shows up and waits for me in front of my building. She does not care what time I come out. She would just sit there and wait. I just don’t know what to do with her. She is making me get into so much stress which i was trying to avoid.
June 28, 2008 at 9:31 pm
Jeez, that sounds like the kind of thing you’d call the cops for if it got any worse. Kind of creepy. Normally I’d just say to sit her down and tell her loud and clear you’re not interested. But people like that don’t like to listen. Well, good luck man.
June 30, 2008 at 2:00 pm
Sounds like no matter what you do, you seem to get stressed by this individual regardless. Now that’s kind of funny you must admit.
You don’t want a relationship because you’re trying to prevent being stressed and if you get into a relationship with this individual you may stress as well. Seems as though you met a stressful girl and by knowing her you will be stressed.
June 30, 2008 at 2:37 pm
I respect you for making that decision, because sometimes us men are prone to irrational decision making when it comes to sex. Majority of women has the perception that all men are dogs and that we’ll sleep with anything that walks, but you prove that they’re men that still make smart decisions.
July 1, 2008 at 3:37 am
Jeez, you have your hands full there. It’s sad that she dosen’t get the picture and leave you alone. A dear friend of mine was obsessed with this guy, she followed him everywhere he went. Everyone tried talking to her, but she refused to listen. After trying for a period of time, she eventually gave up. Hopefully your friend will get the picture.
July 4, 2008 at 9:05 pm
She is a straight up bugaboo and she is crazy. If she hasn’t received the hint that it’s a wrap on her using the word “us” then she needs to let go. Just keep avoiding her, the more you talk to her or even acknowledge her prescense she will take it as an invitation. Be careful! Think of yourself as a gas station; she there to suck up all your gas and once your gas is gone. She’ll be gone. Vampires do exist it seems!
July 6, 2008 at 8:21 pm
oo man you must have the good kisses…haha anyways i understand what you are going through but my guy , well we dated and he just cant or should i say WONT let go. he watches my every move, calls me, writes me. tis crazy because he talkes to me as if we are together. yelling at me for not coming to see him its soo funny. but good luck to you because i have been dealing with this ass/jerk for 4 years now.
July 7, 2008 at 6:45 am
That’s stalker status. She’s cookoo for coco puffs! Are you sure that you guys only shared a kiss? This girl is sprung for all the wrong reasons. Try to ignore her. Do not acknowledge her presence . Do not reply to anything she has to say. Do not look in her direction. And if the situation gets worse, you’ll definitely have to get a restraining order. I’d lke to know what kinda kiss has a girl hiding behind bushes!